Your First Email: Use These Templates that GUARANTEE a Great Response Rate!
Guys, you have got to start doing a better job of typing up emails to women on fling websites. The creativity of the first email on a fling dating site is more important than you probably realize. We cannot stress this enough. Most emails that women receive on these sites are the same. Very few guys actually think outside the box and show some creativity.
Guess what? The only ones that receive a response are the guys that do think outside the box. Imagine logging into your email account and noticing you have 50 unread messages. Of those 50 messages, 40 say nothing other than “what’s up?”, 9 are perverted, and the other one is completely different. Which one are you most likely to respond to?
You probably won’t respond to all 50 messages. There’s only so much time in the day and you have a life. In all likelihood, you’re going to respond to the one that’s different and maybe a few of the “what’s up?” messages. But you’re not going to respond to all of them. If you don’t stand out in the first dating email, you will never have an opportunity to chat with her. And – not that you couldn’t figure this out on your own – if you don’t get an opportunity to chat with her, it will be impossible to get laid.
What to Say on a Fling Dating Site Email if Your Intentions are to NEVER Get Laid
Just in case you have no interest in getting laid and want to use these fling websites for the sole purpose of annoying women, we have some advice for you! Hey, we’re equal opportunity fling dating advice specialists. Plus, we think knowing what NOT to say is just as important as knowing what to say. So here are 3 emails that you should NEVER use…unless you’re just in this to screw with random, slutty women. If that’s what you’re after, we won’t judge…
“I took one look at you and was all like daaammnn girl, what a fine piece of ass you are. I’d give anything to ram my cock so far inside you that it hurts for you to walk afterwards. Baby, I will do you good. I’ll make you cum and scream all night long. How’s that sound?”
Why it’s not going to get you laid? It is way too perverted. She doesn’t even know you. Get to know her first before being direct like this about sex.
“Hey there, I’m Jon. I’m a really nice guy and am looking for a friend with benefits. I think you will have a lot of fun with me. I’m very outgoing and personal. I am always eager to please. I don’t care much about having sex everyday but it would be nice to have on occasion. Well, hit me up!”
Why it’s not going to get you laid? At least this dude wasn’t a disgusting pervert, but he still likely put the chick to sleep. Way too boring. Next…
“What are you up to tonight? Care to chat?”
Why it’s not going to get you laid?No catchy introduction and not enough content. She really has no reason to respond. It’s basically the same thing as sending her a “what’s up?” message.
3 Emails that Get a Conversation Going With a HOT Chick on Fling Dating Sites
Crafting a solid first email is an art. The email should match this criteria…
- Catchy introduction (hook her right away).
- Meaningful body (there must be substance to it).
- Question asked for her to answer (usually best to put this at the end of the email).
- Be mature and make you appear intelligent (so now perverted content and avoid bad grammar/spelling errors).
(Please note: If you are planning on using these emails, do not copy them verbatim. Make them specific to the girl you are emailing. Otherwise they will seem canned. It’s very important to make a first email seem personalized even if you’re sending the same one off to 100 different girls)
“TIME SENSITIVE MATERIAL! That’s right, I’m giving you a DEMAND right off the bat. I know what you’re thinking…who does this guy think he is? But you haven’t even heard my demand yet! What’s my demand? I’m demanding that you remain awesome until we meet! That’s all you have to do. If you fail to remain awesome before we meet…something will happen. I don’t know what, but it will be something not so awesome! Oh, and also it would be nice if you’d message me on IM. Perhaps tonight?”
“There’s something VERY wrong with you. I’m serious. I read through your profile and looked at your pictures and noticed you’re different from the other girls on here. Why are you so different? Why aren’t you a slutty whore? Why don’t you have naked pics? Why did you write up a profile that makes you appear intelligent? Don’t you know what website you’re on? I’m just teasing you! I just get tired of reading so many horrible profiles that it was a breath of fresh air to read yours.”
“Wait…so not everyone on this site is a skank!??? You have your act together. Perhaps you’re lost and on the wrong site? Just playin’! You seem totally cool and very cute. And I’m not just saying that. There are specific things about you I liked from what I saw. First off, you’re a rocker chick. I love me a rocker chick! I’ll blast some Avenged Sevenfold with you all night long…any day of the week! Shall we chat this evening about our favorite rock bands and all sorts of other awesomeness? I’ll be home all evening, so whenever you’re free, hit me up!”