Texting is often times the make or break tool to get a girl really like you and probably open an opportunity for you to really get close to her. And yeah, you might end up so close through text that the spelling gets jumbled and you both found yourselves sending some “sext” messages with each other. Sexting is something lovers or text lovers do and there is nothing wrong about that. However, not all girls are into that and certainly, the girl you met last night might not like it if you initiate the sexting. It helps a lot if you know where the wind blows and follow it. Most often, when you both really got close and hook up, that is the usual time to do some sexting; unless you started out as a sextmate then you have it good. But if you just met the girl and sexting is not yet in the picture, then you better tread carefully.
Be mindful of the right timing before sexting her.
Unless your relationship has become intimate, you never should send sext. Why? Things like that makes you look very forward. Most girls look down on men who openly speak of sex when they are not yet so related. You have to hold your tongue and fingers on every conversation you have. Be her friend first. Most girls love to start with friendship. Gaining their trust is the secret to open the bedroom door.
Do not assume that she likes you that much just because she gave you her number
When the cute girl that you are honing for long gave you her number, it is not a guarantee that she would like to have a date with you. There is not a binding will of testament that she will agree to date with you just because she gave you her number. She is just being friendly. Liking you or feeling something about you is a short-lived innuendo.
It goes like this:
1. She sees you in a party and thinks you are good-looking and so, that is why when you asked her for her number, she readily gave it to you.
2. You promised to text her.
3. She hoped that you will do so.
4. She went about her day like gossiping with female friends, receiving work and non-work related phone calls, got messages from a lost ex- whom she is keeping residual feelings with and a lot more. You got so many competitions.
5. She likes you lesser than she did from the moment you partied and parted.
The right thing to do is to establish your feelings for her right before you go to your respective ways. Show her that you like her. Most people like it when they are appreciated and when the compliments are given with the right words and on the right timing. She will retain or remember her appreciation for you if it is clearer than just asking for her number.
What you should do before sending her sext?
Be patient. You need to take her to, at least, four romantic dates before she agrees to go to bed with you. After that, you have to master the art of sexting. These are examples you can use:
“Hey! I had a great dinner with you. Can we do it again tonight at Padi’s Point? They serve great wine there.” Make your text bounded by time, place and reason.
“You looked incredibly wonderful last night! I pitied all the girls in the restaurant because of how you looked!” Most girls love to get compliments about their dress, make-up or scent.
“I wish you were here.” Text this only if you have become close. Otherwise, she will feel irritated by your forwardness.
“Oh, wait. Let me dress first. I just got out of the shower.” This is an innocent yet, provoking text that can start sexy texting. You can go all the way from here. Just remember that being too open to sext can lose the excitement. Make your texts look innocent. Get her involved in the building up craving of passion. Start easy and drop hints of sexy things.
Tease her like, “I got new cute T-back underwear. Do you want to see it?” This is funny yet provocative. Being comedic makes a girl feel that you are fun to be with and safe to get through the night with.
There are few things to remember before initiating sexting. First you have to establish your feelings for her. Second, you have to take her to romantic dates before you start sending sexy texts. Third, your text should look unintentionally provocative. Third, get her involved in the passionate build up.